Cruel Family

Cruel Family

Now I have a fair share of family that love me, both adopted and biological. But last night I had gotten some cruel post comments on facebook from my birth mother's brother. I don't even know why. I checked on him the other day to see how he was doing and been nothing but kind. I'm pretty sure it was my uncle's wife meddling on his account because it was so random, cruel, and out of nowhere. My aunt has always been hateful to me ever since I made it into adulthood. Always dictating what I said and my pictures and ultimately being downright cruel to me. i'm going to post a couple of the comments below.

First of all, I believe I posted this on my own timeline so if I cuss that's my own damn right and privilege to.

Though this one seems a tad more supportive they are merely hinting at how nobody likes me.

Other things that were said that I didn't screenshot in time was that I had gotten HUGE on my selfie album and also "all deals are about 5 dollars so don't flatter yourself" on a post I made with a picture of a monster and saying how I think the Kroger's cashier was subtly flirting with me and also stated how I may have been mistaken though. What difference does it make if he was or not? I was engaging in self-confidence only to be shot down like a bird by my own blood. Since it was so random and cruel, i'm assuming it was his wife. After the comments were posted I was blocked. She always did have a stick up her ass and was always judgmental and cruel. She and a couple of her daughters, minus my youngest cousin, They all think they're better than everyone else.

This verbal abuse has gone far enough. I am able to be confident in myself when I want to be. I don't need anyone dragging me down and honestly that was the topping on the sundae for me. I had already had a rough two days. First I wasn't invited to an employee party so I stayed at my desk and did absolutely nothing productive that would benefit them, Next, as I checked my phone after work I had 20 missed calls for people looking for some guy named William plus 3 other calls of the same instance after work, Then last night my son threw up chocolate all over his bed set and I had to hurry into the bathroom at 1 in the morning to rinse it all in the bath tub and then get it to the clothes washer in a timely manner so the vomit wouldn't stain his pricey Cleveland Cavaliers bed set. This morning I wake up to find those comments and the guy I was talking serious with told me he just wanted to be friends and sealed it with a heart so I blocked him.

The moral of the story here is to never be cruel to anyone. You never know how bad of a day they may be having or what they're going through. Also, be supportive of your family. Blood or not they're all you have. Treat others how you wish to be treated.