Big Girls Have Standards Too You Know?

Big Girls Have Standards Too You Know?

So there's a lot of assumptions about bigger women and even men. They're bigger. yes, and? Well i'm a heavier set person. 

This is me

Now my best friend showed me a chat of a guy harassing her because she just doesn't want him. yes, she is a bigger girl as well. Do you really think just because we're bigger girls we have to want whatever guy wants us? No. Just like all the pretty skinny little model looking girls a lot of shallow guys chase after, bigger girls have what they like and what they don't like. let me lay down my type for you. In a perfect world my type would be muscular build with little to no facial hair i'll survive a goatee, Green eyes, blonde or black hair and at least 5'10" that is my perfect guy. now seeing as i'm 268lbs (most of it in my chest, thighs, and ass... some in my stomach as you can see from the above image) unless I lose a nice 133lbs, that's unlikely to happen. My more realistic type would be average body and at least 5'9" and I suppose I could put up with facial hair as long as there is a connection but i'm also looking for personality traits like funny, responsible, romantic, attentive. The point is being that this stereotype people tend to have for us bigger people "they should take what they could get" or "why do they have any standards?" is just ridiculous! We have standards because we know what we like just like any of you. you don't like bigger women, you don't like black women, you don't like tall women, you don't like women with big chests, you don't like blondes. it's all a matter of preference and bigger men and women are allowed to have theirs as well. so next time you see a bigger woman hitting on a man who you think is out of her league don't think "ha! she needs to lower her standards!" try thinking "I hope he's into that kind of woman" and If a woman isn't into you well sorry big or not she's just not that into you bro. CHEERS!